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I have been a private player since 1980, a professional Domina from 1983 through 2005, and a certified sexuality educator since 1983.  I bring a special combination of skills and experiences to our meeting. 

Are you a novice who needs guidance and clarity about where to start?   A seasoned veteran looking to perfect a skill or wishing to learn an advanced technique? 

Whether you want a conversation in my professional office, time with me alone or with me and one of my intelligent, trained, articulate, and attractive female or male submissives/switches in my Victorian dungeon known as "The Queen's Chamber" or My fantasy room, the "Boudoir," or all of the above, I can facilitate your journey.

 

EDUCATIONAL CONVERSATIONS

HOW TO MEET OTHERS WHO SHARE YOUR INTERESTS 
may be an important part of your BDSM education. 

HOW TO NEGOTIATE, SET LIMITS AND BOUNDARIES, ESTABLISH SAFEWORDS, BUILD ON-GOING TRUST, AND KEEP IT HOT are the next steps you need to know once you've met someone.

TALKING WITH YOUR PARTNER ABOUT YOUR INTERESTS is another area I can help you with.

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 Some of the other topics we can discuss are:

  • Am I normal?
  • Is this safe ?
  • What does this mean about me ?
  • What else can I do ?
  • Where can I go to play ?
  • Where does sex fit in ?

PRIVATE BDSM EDUCATIONAL DEMO SESSIONS


INDIVIDUALS WHO WISH TO LEARN HOW TO PLAY
with others may, under my supervision and with my guidance, practice with one of my trained
female or male submissives or switches.
COUPLES may wish to explore BDSM with me alone in my Dungeon, or learn with me and one of my 
submissives.
  • There is a connection between pain and pleasure.  
    Discover what it is and how to establish it.
  • Learn hands-on BDSM techniques. 
  • Explore the psychological side of Erotic Power Exchange.                             
    Learn     how to give orders and what to do if you're not obeyed!  Understand the difference between controlling a submissive and actually dominating one, and how to move from one to the other.                                  
  • Learn when and how to push both physical and psychological limits.             
    Hear articulate feedback from me and my intelligent, informed submissives.

PLEASE NOTE

NO DIRECT SEXUAL CONTACT OR ILLEGAL ACTIVITIES ARE ALLOWED, OFFERED, OR IMPLIED

ALL BDSM ACTIVITIES ARE SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL, AND NON-EXPLOITIVE

As co-author of Consensual Sadomasochism: How to Talk About It and How To Do It Safely with William A. Henkin, Ph.D. (Daedalus Publishing Company, 1996), and a BDSM Educator since 1985, I am sophisticated about issues of safety, proper technique, and communication, and I share my knowledge with you.

  BDSM COUNSELING

Sometimes you don't need a lesson in technique as much as you need a seasoned mind to hear what is and is not working, and to support you in making your way clear in the world of SM, D/s, and sexuality. 

My focus is to help individuals and couples acquire various tools and learn how to use them in a way to make it all come together.

Helping you be heard, resolving sexual conflicts, and bringing together different fantasies in a manner that works for all are some of my specialties.

If you are interested in learning more about me as a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, Sex Educator, Energy Worker, and Spiritual Counselor please visit my other site at www.spiralway.com.

HOW TO CONTACT ME

Before you call, email, or write to me, please click here to read my guidelines for contacting me.  It will make our first contact much more pleasant for both of  us.      
415-863-7326

My regular business days and hours are Monday through Thursday from 12:00 noon to 7:00pm PST, and I do see clients on Friday by special arrangement. 

The best time to call for information or to schedule an appointment is Monday through Thursday from 12:00 noon to 1:30pm. 

My first appointment starts at 1:00pm, my last ends at 7:00pm, and schedule permitting, I do answer the phone in-between appointments so you can try till about 6:30pm. 

Although I do enjoy email my schedule precludes extensive correspondence. 

A phone call is an absolute necessity and the next step if you wish to make an appointment.

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