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CLASSIC SM, D/S, CROSSDRESSING 

I see Myself as a Gracious and Strict Queen, with subjects, servants, slaves, and pets.  Slave Training, D/s, and the control of the human mind and will are of great interest to me.  
I do not humiliate my subjects but rather train them in humility, which is not at all the same as humiliation but is the elimination of false pride, arrogance, and the notion of entitlement.  I also specialize in teaching the nobility of service.

I enjoy classic SM, and My Victorian Dungeon, "The Queen's Chamber," is well-equipped with clips, clamps, safe electrical devices, sterile piercing equipment, candles, canes, crops, paddles, straps, tawses, whips of all kinds from sensual to very severe, and more.   Most of the SM I do is for My pleasure and entertainment; it is not necessarily punishment, although if punishment is needed I can be quite severe.

Spanking, whipping, and caning are some of My most favorite activities in the Scene.  I specialize in Tantric SM, the art of turning pain into a pleasurable and spiritual experience, and am known for my extended whipping sessions.  

We can go from "mild to wild," and marks only occur if you wish a memento of your time with Me.   I like to say, "No marks on your body, and an indelible impression on your mind."

I do enjoy physical bondage, and have a bondage table, bondage and CBT chair, horse, small bondage stool, safe full off-the-ground suspension (various suspension harnesses, a Mr. S "sit-swing," and a regular sling), a leather single glove, a leather chastity belt and various genital restraint devices, head trainers, various styles of wrist and ankle cuffs and other leather restraints, collars, leashes, spreader bars, many lengths of rope, as well as sensory deprivation devices such as hoods, blindfolds, and various kinds of gags. 

However, I do not do scenes that contain only bondage, or where physical bondage is the first priority, as I am only pleased when there is also some other form of activity, such as SM, slave training, golden showers, and/or crossdressing, etc.

Placing you in psychological bondage is very appealing to Me, requiring that you stand, sit, kneel, walk, perhaps even breathe, exactly the way I wish for as long as I wish, without any physical bondage to assist you with your gift.

GENDER EXPLORATIONS

My twelve years as a successful Ecdysiast (look it up!) along with four years as Stage Manager for The Sutter Theatre in San Francisco have given me a deep understanding of the Feminine Arts, as well as an extensive collection of makeup, wigs, jewelry, and accessories, a great Crossdress wardrobe, and the skill and ability to use them to help you become the girl of your dreams. 

Are you a "little girl,"  a virgin, a slut, the girl-next-door, a hi-fashion  model, a schoolgirl, a French maid, a stripper, a fetish model, my submissive Lesbian slave -- who and what are you when all dressed up?  

Adult girl babies, toddlers, and sissies are also welcome, and will find more information here, as will maids and anyone else interested in Domestic Discipline.

In the "Boudoir" a large selection of shoes and boots from size 9 to size 14, lingerie, corsets, maid outfits, adult baby girl and baby boy clothes, schoolgirl uniforms, and other fetish clothing, all in sizes small to very large await the discriminating Crossdresser, along with accessories such as purses, gloves, scarves, etc!

As it also states on the Domestic Discipline page, sissies are dressed in lace, ribbons, ruffles, and petticoats for My amusement and taught Sissy manners.  Sissies are trained and punished accordingly if and when they misbehave, which means no masculine behavior is allowed whatsoever!

A complete Transformation or Makeover is possible from tip to toe.  Makeup and Movement Lessons are available, as are Lessons in Clothing Sizing, Style, Selection, and Color; Wig Selection and Care; and Nail, Skin, and Hair Care.

Or, you can try just a little foray into My World of Womanhood, wearing only silky lingerie or fetishistic clothing and high (to 7 inches) heels or boots.  Maybe a lick of lipstick?  A splash of perfume?  Do know you can safely shower and leave looking and smelling exactly as you did when you arrived.

Also, you do not have to see yourself as a female, or as having a feminine side to want to wear feminine attire.  Some men crossdress because it’s a kinky, forbidden activity, some crossdress because they want to be a decorated sex object, and others crossdress to strip away their masculine identity.

Once you are dressed, I can train you to be ladylike, a total slut, or both.

The Feminine Arts also include Deportment and Etiquette; Meeting Others; and Feminine Politics, Feminine Spirituality, and Feminine Sexuality.  I offer no illegal activities.

All of this can take place in the My dungeon, the elegant and exotic Queen's Chamber, My fantasy room, the lovely mirrored Princess' Boudoir, or both.

Polaroid or digital photo shoots are also available.  Take home a souvenir!

HOW TO CONTACT ME

Before you call, email, or write to me, please click here to read my guidelines for contacting me.  It will make our first contact much more pleasant for both of  us.      

415-863-7326

My regular business days and hours are Monday through Thursday from 12:00 noon to 7:00pm PST, and I do see clients on Friday by special arrangement. 

The best time to call for information or to schedule an appointment is Monday through Thursday from 12:00 noon to 1:30pm. 

My first appointment starts at 1:00pm, my last ends at 7:00pm, and schedule permitting, I do answer the phone in-between appointments so you can try till about 6:30pm. 

Although I do enjoy email my schedule precludes extensive correspondence. 

A phone call is an absolute necessity and the next step if you wish to make an appointment.

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